In Love with Valentine's Day

Florida born and raised but I've got Jersey in my veins... This post is just going to contain my fave love quotes and Alyson Stoner's take on Valentine's day...

From Alyson Stoner's Twitter: I'm preparing my heart for Feb. 14th, and not in the way you may suspect. I don't have a boyfriend, I don't have a date, and I'm not looking. But newsflash: I'm not defined by my Valentine. (It rhymes for a reason, remember the phrase.) There's NO pressure to reach a certain level of "love" by the fourteenth. In fact, true love arises spontaneously and is a result of patience, respect, and honorable actions. I'm NOT required to manufacture romance, and neither are you. Truth be told, trying to create a "special" experience because it's expected, accepted, and prevalent doesn't usually prove to be the wisest choice in navigation (especially in this case). The gutsy, respectable, and rewarding path requires a different attitude, in which you prepare and guard your heart. What road will you walk? --- There are many people who are looking for love, but are they looking out for you? You're one-of-a-kind. Maybe this year you can take a step back and think about your plan for Valentine's Day. It's one day. Your future is every other day after. Be careful, be wise, and don't worry about making this holiday something straight out of a romantic comedy. I'm an actress, and I've yet to see real life play out like a movie. This year, I'm sharing all my love with family and friends; yes, there's a place in my heart reserved for a special guy, but I haven't reached that season. And I'm in no rush. -- Hope this encourages you!!! Have a good one, & speak soon… xo



Quotes on Love:

In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make.-Unknown

A happy relationship is made up of two good forgivers.

The difference between 'Like' 'Love' and 'In Love' is the same as the difference between 'For Now' 'For A While' and 'Forever'.

Life’s too short to play games. If u love somebody and u want to be with them, then go get them. Deal with the mess later.

Although we adore men individually, we agree that as a group they’re rather stupid. -Mary Poppins

No girl should ever forget: that she doesn’t need anyone who doesn’t need her back. -Marilyn Monroe

The most beautiful feeling is to see the person u love smiling, and its even more beautiful to know that YOU are the reason behind it.

Don't be a woman that needs a man, be the woman a man needs.-Author Unknown.

To forgive someone that has hurt you, you must first forgive yourself for feeling angry. -Brian Paige

"I wish love was like baby shampoo. Because it has "no more tears" formula."

Ladies::: don't fall in love,, stand in love-RevRunWisdom

Acceptance is Love. Love is acceptance.-Demi Lovato

Relationships come and go. Christ's love is forever. -#FB

If u fight like a married couple, talk like bestfriends, flirt like first love, protect each other like brother & sister it is meant to be.

Just because somebody flirts with you doesn’t mean they like you. Just because somebody likes you doesn’t mean they want to go out with you. Just because somebody wants to go out with you doesn’t mean they love you. Just because somebody loves you doesn’t mean they won’t hurt you.

The Notebook: "You're dumb. I can be that."
"If you're a bird, I'mma bird."

"Young Noah: It's not about following your heart and it's not about keeping your promises. It's about security.
Young Allie: What's that supposed to mean?
Young Noah: [yelling] Money. He's got a lot of money!
Young Allie: You smug bastard. I hate you for saying that.
Young Noah: You're bored Allie. You're bored and you know it. You wouldn't be here if there wasn't something missing.
Young Allie: You arrogant son of a bitch.
Young Noah: Would you just stay with me?
Young Allie: Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we're already fightin'
Young Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.
Young Allie: So what?
Young Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.
Young Allie: What easy way? There is no easy way, no matter what I do, somebody gets hurt.
Young Noah: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do YOU want? What do you WANT?
Young Allie: It's not that simple.
Young Noah: What... do... you... want? Whaddaya want? "

Young Noah: My Dearest Allie. I couldn't sleep last night because I know that it's over between us. I'm not bitter anymore, because I know that what we had was real. And if in some distant place in the future we see each other in our new lives, I'll smile at you with joy and remember how we spent the summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. I'll be seeing you. Noah♥

If u really love a person, u're willing to wait no matter how long it takes. Because in True Love, Forever isn't a really long time.


#Fact The more u talk about that person to others, the more u fall in love with that person.

Friendship is a good start, a good foundation. Too bad for some people, it is also a borderline, a limitation.

Girls have a bad habit of holding on for too long. Boys have a bad habit of letting go too easily.

We don't need to rush things. If something's meant to be, it will happen... in the right time, with the right person and for the best reason.

Someone you haven't met is out there wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you.- Marcin Mrowca

Just when you think it's time to give up, DON'T! You never know what could happen tomorrow..-Rexy Raudha

#IronicTruth Love is weird. There's actually a weird pleasure in loving someone who doesn't love you back.

Just because it brings you pleasure doesn't mean it's good for you because pleasure is temporary but Joy is Eternal. -Chelsea DeVries♥

If the things that u've decided to avoid & get rid off are happening again and again.. then you know, it's meant to be.

A guy who truly loves his girl doesn't need to unbutton her shirt to have a better view of her heart.-Brianna Rouzan

#rulesformen If a girl is stupid enough to love you after you broke her heart, I guarantee you, she is the one. Don't let her go.

Sometimes, people give up too soon. It doesn't mean they stop loving each other, but maybe they stop trying so hard & just let it be.

Life has a way of working things out for the best, but it takes its bittersweet time. So, be patient.

In the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter. -Nicholas Sparks


"Meant to be" doesn't mean "Meant to be now, soon, next year etc." It means "meant to be when everything finish falling in the right place."

#lovetips Fellas, making a girl jealous won't make her chase you. It will just push her away.

#lovetips NEVER chase anyone. A person who truly appreciates you will walk with you and won't need to be chased!

Sometimes it's good to put up walls, not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down. They are the ones worth keeping.

Ladies, every guy will hurt you at least once in your relationship and the ones that really matter will try to get you back.

Forgiveness and love... cannot be earned, deserved, bought, sold, won, or forced. They are a gift.


Sometimes what we think is meant to be is meant to be for that time period not forever. Letting go is the best option.

#note2girls If he wants you, he’ll say it, if he cares, he’ll show it. If not, he's not worth your time.

Ladies, the more you try to win him, the more desperate you will appear. Let it FLOW.

Never rush into falling in love, cus love never runs out; Let love be the one to knock at ur door. Besides, True Love is worth waiting for.

No matter how hard u try to hold on, some people are just meant to leave. Some eventually would come back. Some others won't.

Until next time remember, Don’t ever think you’re nothing because somewhere along the line, there’s going to be someone who thinks you’re everything♥

Love Times Infinity,
Chelsea
xoxo
God Bless!

~Just Keep Swimming!~